Tips for online dating

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There are tons of options out there for online dating, with many websites serving a particular niche. Whether you’re looking for a hookup or a serious relationship, you can find a number of sites that will meet your needs. Sites like can help you sort through the various options. It’s usually a good idea to use multiple sites, and with many free sites out there you don’t have to break the bank.

Regardless of the sites you choose, you should keep a couple of things in mind to make the best use of your time.

First, keep in mind that attractive women get flooded with messages. Don’t get upset or take it personally if you don’t get a response. It’s a buyer’s market for women on these sites and many of them just sit back and field messages. With that in mind, you really need to be on your game in order to have her even read your message, let alone visit your profile and then respond.

One tactic that will save you a ton of time is to focus on women who are currently online. If you don’t do that, you’ll end up seeing tons of profiles that you like for women who haven’t been active on the site for a while. Even if she comes back to the site, she’ll have a boatload of messages to sort through, so all the time you spend reading her profile and then crafting a personal message will probably be wasted. On the other hand, if she’s online, the chances are exponentially better that she’ll see and read your message. At least you’ll be in the game.

Also, many sites now will let you see if your message has been read. If not, you can always follow up with women who haven’t responded while knowing if she even saw your first message. If not, you can confidently try again. If so, you can address that in your next message and mention that you’re trying again.

The key here is to avoid wasting too much time on these sites. Maximize your effectiveness and get more quality responses by using these simple tactics.