Women want men, not boys

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If you know how to behave around women, you’ll have a huge advantage over all the other guys out there, regardless of age. Women don’t want obnoxious boys. Sure, they may be intrigued by a young guy with a six pack, but the situations where they will act on that are limited, and you can screw things up quickly with your behavior.

Women are attracted to men who project confidence and can engage them on levels beyond silly pick-up lines or party boy behavior at bars.

Too many guys have succumbed to a strange phenomenon as they often misunderstand the entire concept of manliness and start acting like frat boys to attract women. Well, however strange it might sound, many women are not really into boyish behavior. Immaturity is probably the most repulsive characteristic of all. You may be depressive, sullen or emotionless, but childish acts will remain the one feature that repels women. So what should you do to change this pitiful situation? We cannot prescribe the perfect plan to make yourself attractive. What we can help you with is to list a set of attractive features to behave like a man that women find attractive. You can later check if our bits of advice help here: Go Dating Now/. Go on reading!

1. Know what you want in life. Do you remember your days in school and college? You probably weren’t fully aware of what you were going to devote your life to. Deciding on what you want in life, what kind of goals you’ll pursue or what are your aspirations – this can help you in your interactions with women as you’ll project confidence. Men with little direction and ambiguous intentions can come across as creepy.

2. Look sharp. Another strange phenomenon of the modern society revolves around this topic for the modern man. Your issues with women won’t be solved simply by taking care of you physical appearance, spending six hours a day in the gym and a lot of money on clothes and cosmetics. Looking good does not require that much of a struggle. Stay fit, fight your weight issues (or avoid gaining weight), dress nicely and don’t forget about grooming and facial hair. It’s not that complicated.

3. Respectful attitude. Yes, evil misogynists, we are talking to you (but, unfortunately, not only to you). Modern guys have forgotten what chivalry means. Men also try to blame girls for seeking only money and status. But there’s nothing wrong with women seeking out someone who has their life in order. Projecting an adult image goes a long way towards being taken seriously.

4. Faithfulness. Having a level of seriousness will be respected by women. You earn respect by being respectful. Understand what a woman wants and respect those desires. If you’re a serial liar, this will catch up to you. If a woman wants a relationship, don’t lie to her or try to treat her like a simple hookup.

5. Don’t act like a college kid. Regardless of your age, realize there’s much more to the world than partying with your crew or playing video games. Develop conversation skills and learn how to have adult conversations. Understand that finding something cool or interesting to do together goes a long way.